Wednesday, September 23, 2009

AMOR AMOR AMOR


hahaha.aku pn xtau npe aku bt post ni.tp skang mmg cinta melingkari idup aku. =) its kind afun n sometimes its kinda scary. i'll tell u why. but before that, yg aku blaja dlu dlm subj social pyschology,there are 9 types of love. :

  • affection
  • platonic love
  • sexual love
  • romantic love
  • puppy love
  • commited love
  • infatuation
  • passionate love







Affection Love

  • caring
  • hugging
  • kissing
  • fondness
  • closeness
  • concern
  • friendship
  • being there for the person
  • a bond
  • doing things for the person
  • happiness
  • helping the person
  • holding hands
  • sharing
  • warmth
  • can be one-sided
  • not too intense
  • not sexual




Sexual Love

  • Physical attraction

  • arousal

  • lust

  • expressed through sexual intercourse

  • person is seen only as a sex object for one's own gratification

  • commitment

  • contentment

  • excitement

  • fulfills a need

  • heart rate increases

  • intimate

  • kissing

  • touching

  • not long lasting

  • close while having sex, but not necessarily after

  • emotional

  • giving

  • happiness

  • special

  • think about the other person all the time







Platonic Love

  • friendship

  • not sexual

  • caring

  • doing thing together

  • not physical

  • supportive

  • enjoy each other's company

  • feel relaxed with the person

  • happiness

  • helping the person

  • normal behavior

  • sharing

  • trust

  • contentment

  • feel free to talk about anything

  • being reliable

  • respect





Romantic Love

  • candlelight dinners

  • taking walks

  • happiness

  • idealistic

  • want to be with the other person all the time

  • giving gifts

  • dream about the person

  • like a fairy tale

  • feel relaxed with the person

  • good times

  • physical attraction

  • sitting in front of a fireplace

  • sharing

  • courtship

  • doing things together

  • don't know the person very well

  • kissing

  • your world revolves around the person

  • honesty

  • glowing

  • giving

  • friendship

  • feel free to talk about anything

  • problems seem to vanish

  • sexual

  • sweaty palms

  • soft music

  • think about the person all the time







Puppy Love

  • occurs at a young age

  • a new experience

  • not long lasting

  • think about the person all the time

  • infatuation

  • feel shy around the person

  • a crush

  • dream about the person

  • feel like your floating

  • initially strong, but then fades

  • painful if not reciprocated

  • see only the person's good qualities

  • act immaturely

  • attraction

  • heart rate increases

  • kissing




Friendship Love

  • Feel free to talk about anything

  • caring

  • helping

  • honesty

  • doing thing together

  • trust

  • sharing

  • understanding

  • sharing emotions

  • being there for the other person

  • good times

  • happiness

  • supporting

  • long lasting

  • loyalty

  • openness

  • sharing thoughts

  • a bond

  • closeness

  • common interests

  • concern

  • feeling relaxed with the person

  • listening to each other

  • respect

  • sadness

  • sense of belonging

  • sharing experiences





Committed Love

  • commitment

  • continues regardless of the circumstances

  • long lasting

  • think about the person all the time

  • being there for the person

  • felt for only one person

  • honesty

  • sharing

  • caring

  • closeness

  • giving

  • respect

  • a promise

  • sexual

  • trust

  • understandinga bond

  • devotion

  • faithfulness

  • feel free to talk about anything

  • give and take relationship

  • live together

  • opennesspassionate

  • sacrifice





Passionate Love

  • sexual

  • caring

  • intense

  • think about the person all the time

  • a bond

  • heart rate increases

  • want to be with the person all the time

  • arousal

  • emotional

  • expressive

  • kissing

  • lust

  • attraction

  • don't know the person very well

  • euphoria

  • excitement

  • feel flushed

  • giving your self completely to the person

  • hugging

  • intimate

  • irrational

  • physical

  • the person is the most special person in your life

  • not long lasting

  • touching

  • want to make each other happy








Infatuation Love

  • Think about the other person all the time

  • not long lasting

  • physical attraction

  • see only the person's good qualities

  • intrigued by some fascinating quality of the person

  • your world revolves around the person

  • you don't know the person very well

  • excited when you see the person

  • being love-struck

  • heart rate increases

  • sweaty palms

  • think you're in love

  • talk about the person all the time

  • want to be with the person all the time

  • a crush

  • based on first impressions

  • irrational









- dgn x malu nya, i admit that im in infatuation love.but out of nowhere suddenly im involved in possessive love.its kinda annoying.trust me.bcos all of ur movements has been control by other person.where that person seems TOOOOO much into u,its kinda obsessive.its like, 'we hv to talk on d phone everyday' then 'we hv to sms to each other in EVERY single seconds.'if not,that particular person will do sumthin to attract ur attention.gosh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I HAVE MY OWN LIFE.i have my rights to go WHEREVER i wanna go.im not yours,n u r not mine. do i hv to tell u EVERYTHING that i do in every single min?okie.nuff bout possessive love. bout my infatuation love, yeah.its a diff person.

-yeah. i like him.i attracted to him.n im basically in love with him.but i guess im d oni 1 who feel that way.becoz its hard to read his mind thou. hes hot then hes cold.TOTALLY like katy perry's song-hot and cold.so mcm aku ni cinta bertepuk sblah tgn kot. sigh.

so ni ala2 cnta 3 segi la ni kn.aku kejar ko,ko x kejar aku,dia yg kejar aku.hahahahaahaha

tp org tua2 slalu ckp,baik pilih org yg mncntai kamu dari org yg kamu cintai sebb blom tntu lg org yg kamu cntai itu akan cntakan kamu mcm kamu cntakan dia. tp org yg cintai kamu tu sememangnya sygkn kamu. duhhh.pning.










so korg,korg terlibat dlm kategori cinta yg mna??????????????????????????????

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